Push pull method dating
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In most relationships you will find that one party is actively or aggressively interested in the relationship - and one party is receptively or passively interested.
Over 90% of this kind of attraction is attributable to body language and tonality alone.
Me: (throwing off her hand and looking shocked): Are you calling me a liar?There are so many possibilities to choose from, but this conversation of his has stuck in my mind for a while now: I never, ever worry about a woman’s resistance to me.Thus, if you already have good fundamentals, and you want to get the girl you want a LOT faster, you’re better off pulling her in more frequently, than pushing her away, because the chances are good she will follow your lead.The party that pushes will use any tactic available to them. By doing this you eliminate your mate's resistance to you. No longer motivated to run from you, they stop their feelings of fear, hurt, anger, pessimism, and grief, anxiety, and even depression. No longer needing to flee, they feel they can now relax with you. I believe that she does love you, but that (because of your 'active' interest in pursuing her love) you are not allowing her to feel the full intensity of her love for you. She may be confused because she believes that she loves you, and that your marriage should be given a second chance, but her subconscious has programmed her to feel just the opposite.Emotional manipulation; begging; pleading; promising to change; engaging the help of others; threats; sex; trying to please; helplessness; guilt; despair; praying; reassurance; repeated confessions of love; arguing; hoping; reasoning; hopelessness; and even blaming. They make your mate, by nature, When someone is in flight the only way to make them stop running is to quit pursuing them! They no longer feel the need to resist you, they can return to you and feel safe in doing so. The more you actively pursue her, the more confused she becomes - and the less she feels an 'active' love for you.